Online Dating is the best way to meet women. Unfortunately a lot of men struggle with it. They get rejected, they get women who flake, and some never get mailed or answered at all. A lot of the issue may be with your profile, but the way and what you email is where you can spark or kill an attraction. Which one are you doing? Do you even know?
1. Send shorter emails. No Novels please. Enough to get her curious. The first email should only be a few sentences. Max 5. More than that and you are the eager beaver
2. First email mention something about her profile. We really like it when you actually read it.
3. Be flirty and playful, not all stuffy, but do not mention sex at all, unless that is all you are after with which I wish you luck.
4. Email her once, if she doesn't answer, don't mail her back again. If you are really set on her, wait at least 45 days to mail again. You are not desperate. Women can pick up on desperate from miles away.
5. Wait between emailing women online. Don't answer her within minutes. Set a time everyday to open and answer emails if possible. This will help you keep some control. If you aren't online, you can't see the hottie or not so hottie that emailed you.
6. Answer all emails, even the less desirable ones. Be nice, no need to be rude. You can say thanks but no thanks or you can opt to perhaps make a new friend. Either way, the more women you communicate with, the better you get at it. It's practice. Also those polite no thank yous practice will likely come in handy when you finally do meet a nice girl that you just don't click with.
7. Keep away from personal and serious subjects. Only mail about light subjects, be witty, be real. No ex talk, no kid talk.
8. Paint a picture when you can as early as possible in her mind of the two of you together. This means using "we" instead of 'I". Women connect emotionally and you can start working this in the first emails.
9. Always include a subject line and change it up, be unpredictable.
10. Move out of pen pal status within 2 weeks. Use email to establish comfort, trust, and emotional attraction. Email a proposed date and move her to phone.
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Your first date will be much more successful if you can build her interest and attraction before it even happens. This is done in the first few emails. Some say to email once or twice, make the date and be done with it. See if it's there or if it's not. I say no, keep her on the line for a couple weeks building the attraction and anticipation. Even if she isn't Ms. Right, you are getting some great practice and get better and better at it. The better you are at something the more confident you become in it. Make sense?
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