Thursday, February 10, 2011

The First Email Dating Online

To send or not to send that first email. Seriously most women now really do want the man to take the lead. It seems now that men are just plain gun shy and scared. What's all that about. Anything worth having doesn't come easy, you know this. That being said, don't sit back and wait for the women to contact you.

Now that first email, your best line of attack is to read her profile and remark and ask a question. Get her engaged in a conversation. I talk to hundreds of women online dating and the stories are the same. The first email just makes us roll our eyes. They usually remark on our looks, calling us cutie or sexy. If you are looking for something lasting don't start here.

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Don't let rejection get you down, we get rejected too, just as much I promise. It's a numbers game that you stand a much better chance at winning if you will be bold. Take the lead. It's so sexy. Be creative, there is no excuse, you have time to think before you write.

Keep anything negative out. Don't talk all about yourself in your fist email, show interest in her. Talk like you were having a normal conversation. Be your authentic self. No bragging, no boasting. Be funny and light. Be confident.

Winks and icebreakers are just lame, saving in your favorites hoping she will email you is lame also. Just go for it. Worse she can say is no. It won't be the first time and it won't be the last.

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Invest in some online help if you aren't getting anywhere. Isn't the right woman worth it. There is some good information out there, a lot of it free, some of it not.

We are tired of the lame emails, stand out, be different, have no fear, just go for it.

Love does happen online and it can start with the first email. I have corresponded with some pretty skilled men at this and was dying to meet them/him. He was no Romeo, but his words were well thought out and sincere.

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