Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Men Online Dating Must Persist

If I had any one piece of advice for men online dating, it would be to keep at it, don't give up. Online dating for men or women for that matter is a numbers game. I know you have heart this before, but seriously do you really accept it? Do you get frustrated by the flaky women, the ones who disappear, won't meet you or are just down right rude? It's going to happen, even the 10s online get rejected, we all do.

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That being said if you are a man online dating, you need some thick skin. Forget about the flakes, just say next and keep going. You don't honestly think you are going to find her in the first week or even month or so do you? I mean some do, but it's rare. It takes patience and skill.

I have a friend who went on 42 first dates before he found the one. That's a lot of dates and this was over 8 months time. He didn't give up. He would broaden his search and started going out with girls he usually wouldn't consider. Turns out one of these girls was the one. They are still going hot and heavy.

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It does help a lot if you know what you are doing though. A good profile, knowing what to write in that first email is huge. These two things alone if done right can escalate your success.

So many profiles are the same, so emails say the same thing. Let me tell you as women are looking for. It's simple. A connection. We are looking for that one guy who stands out above all the rest and it has nothing to do with his looks.

Any female that has been online dating for a couple months is frustrated just like you. Trust me. The quality women actually remain on dating sites longer because of their unwillingness to settle. They go on date after date and just get bored. The quality women are waiting for that guy who stands out and gets how to make a connections and build up attraction.

If you don't think you can build connections or attraction online via emails, you are very very mistaken.

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Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Subject Line In That First Email Online

This one little tip can drastically increase your success rate dating women online. It's simple but effective. Women dating online, especially the more attractive ones, the 8s, 9s, and 10s get a lot of mail. Let me tell you, they all say the same thing. "Hey", "Hey Sexy" or blah blah blah. Makes our heart just sink when we open our inbox. We think, oh no, not another same ole same ole. Am I not worth a little effort really? It is so discouraging.

So that being said, make your subject line interesting. Be creative. Stand out, be different. I mean when I open my inbox and something is different, you can bet I skip over all of the others and go to that one email that appears some effort was put in. Need I mention this is also her first impression.

Women are emotional creatures. Here are just a few of many examples I could give you with the subject line, you fill in the rest.

I was imagining....
Wondering.....
I was thinking....
On my way......

You get the idea. Another idea is to start your first sentence in your email in your subject line. Example: Subject line says, While I was reading your profile, then you finish the sentence in your email.

Change the subject line with every email. This builds anticipation in her. She learns to associate anticipation to you, which starts attraction building in her mind.

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It's simple, but very effective, try it.
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