To attract more women online, you have to step outside of your reality. If you are focusing on what you want, that's all fine and well. After all this is about you. However, to be successful online dating, you need to focus on what women want and what they look for online. Step outside of your reality and understand hers. It would be nice if she would do the same, but you as the male after all are the pursuer. It's your job.
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First understand how women create their profiles. It's like they are going to a ball or the prom. They put lots of time into it. They send pics off to friends to get opinions on which ones should be posted. They spend hours writing it, at least most do. They dress it all up.
Men toss a few things up there as a rule, some even say mail me if you want to know more. What a let down. Even if you sent a half interesting email and a woman clicks on your profile and sees this, she will click off and most likely not answer. If she is attractive, you can bet she has about 30 more emails and profiles to sort through just as disappointing.
Women are waiting. They are waiting for that one guy to stand out. They are waiting for that one guy that has a great profile and can compose a few really good sentences. They are waiting for that one guy that stands out among all those same ole emails and profiles.
If you have in your profile all of your wonderful characteristics such as honesty, loyalty, loving, compassionate blah blah blah, take it out. They all say that. You won't stand out with these attributes even if they are important.
So what I am saying here is a good profile is something she strives for so to stand out you have to give her what she values, which is a good profile.
When writing your profile, make sure you feel good. Do it when you are at your best. Maybe after you have had some fun with the guys, maybe after a good work out at the gym. If you feel good it will reflect in your words. Put on some up beat music while you are writing it. Sounds crazy I know but it helps a lot.
Be creative, use words that paint pictures. Adjectives. Don't give out your whole life or write a book. Focus in on a few key points or things that make you interesting. What is the coolest thing about you?
Have a few good photos up. Profiles with photos get over 50% more activity. Leave your shirt on unless you are out on a boat or something. If you have a pic of you shirtless in front of a bathroom mirror remove it now!!!!!
The thing that keeps women interested is more of what they don't know about you than what they do. So if in describing what you do for a living for example don't actually tell it, but describe what you do. I am a writer. My profile does not say I am a writer. It says I earn my living with words, with a few more details.
Women love mystery. Lay the groundwork in your profile and follow up with a great email and your chances online will improve. If you need help with your profile you can get it here. Profile Help 911. Yes it is on a women's website, but who better than a woman to help you get it right. I know what we want. Or you can mail me at yahoo, robinincarolina.
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Wednesday, June 29, 2011
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
10 Online Dating Email Tips for Men
Online Dating is the best way to meet women. Unfortunately a lot of men struggle with it. They get rejected, they get women who flake, and some never get mailed or answered at all. A lot of the issue may be with your profile, but the way and what you email is where you can spark or kill an attraction. Which one are you doing? Do you even know?
1. Send shorter emails. No Novels please. Enough to get her curious. The first email should only be a few sentences. Max 5. More than that and you are the eager beaver
2. First email mention something about her profile. We really like it when you actually read it.
3. Be flirty and playful, not all stuffy, but do not mention sex at all, unless that is all you are after with which I wish you luck.
4. Email her once, if she doesn't answer, don't mail her back again. If you are really set on her, wait at least 45 days to mail again. You are not desperate. Women can pick up on desperate from miles away.
5. Wait between emailing women online. Don't answer her within minutes. Set a time everyday to open and answer emails if possible. This will help you keep some control. If you aren't online, you can't see the hottie or not so hottie that emailed you.
6. Answer all emails, even the less desirable ones. Be nice, no need to be rude. You can say thanks but no thanks or you can opt to perhaps make a new friend. Either way, the more women you communicate with, the better you get at it. It's practice. Also those polite no thank yous practice will likely come in handy when you finally do meet a nice girl that you just don't click with.
7. Keep away from personal and serious subjects. Only mail about light subjects, be witty, be real. No ex talk, no kid talk.
8. Paint a picture when you can as early as possible in her mind of the two of you together. This means using "we" instead of 'I". Women connect emotionally and you can start working this in the first emails.
9. Always include a subject line and change it up, be unpredictable.
10. Move out of pen pal status within 2 weeks. Use email to establish comfort, trust, and emotional attraction. Email a proposed date and move her to phone.
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Your first date will be much more successful if you can build her interest and attraction before it even happens. This is done in the first few emails. Some say to email once or twice, make the date and be done with it. See if it's there or if it's not. I say no, keep her on the line for a couple weeks building the attraction and anticipation. Even if she isn't Ms. Right, you are getting some great practice and get better and better at it. The better you are at something the more confident you become in it. Make sense?
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1. Send shorter emails. No Novels please. Enough to get her curious. The first email should only be a few sentences. Max 5. More than that and you are the eager beaver
2. First email mention something about her profile. We really like it when you actually read it.
3. Be flirty and playful, not all stuffy, but do not mention sex at all, unless that is all you are after with which I wish you luck.
4. Email her once, if she doesn't answer, don't mail her back again. If you are really set on her, wait at least 45 days to mail again. You are not desperate. Women can pick up on desperate from miles away.
5. Wait between emailing women online. Don't answer her within minutes. Set a time everyday to open and answer emails if possible. This will help you keep some control. If you aren't online, you can't see the hottie or not so hottie that emailed you.
6. Answer all emails, even the less desirable ones. Be nice, no need to be rude. You can say thanks but no thanks or you can opt to perhaps make a new friend. Either way, the more women you communicate with, the better you get at it. It's practice. Also those polite no thank yous practice will likely come in handy when you finally do meet a nice girl that you just don't click with.
7. Keep away from personal and serious subjects. Only mail about light subjects, be witty, be real. No ex talk, no kid talk.
8. Paint a picture when you can as early as possible in her mind of the two of you together. This means using "we" instead of 'I". Women connect emotionally and you can start working this in the first emails.
9. Always include a subject line and change it up, be unpredictable.
10. Move out of pen pal status within 2 weeks. Use email to establish comfort, trust, and emotional attraction. Email a proposed date and move her to phone.
Click Here to discover how to have 7 Dates or more this month with attractive women
Your first date will be much more successful if you can build her interest and attraction before it even happens. This is done in the first few emails. Some say to email once or twice, make the date and be done with it. See if it's there or if it's not. I say no, keep her on the line for a couple weeks building the attraction and anticipation. Even if she isn't Ms. Right, you are getting some great practice and get better and better at it. The better you are at something the more confident you become in it. Make sense?
Click Here to discover how to have 7 Dates or more this month with attractive women
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